Friday, August 14, 2009

Flower gardens and activism

Many of you know that my sweet wife, Joyce, takes care of a few city flower gardens as a volunteer. I got her permission to tell this tale, which I think illustrates the importance of taking a stand for what you believe in.
She takes her flower gardening very seriously, and does not take kindly to anyone interfering with her handiwork. (you may remember me talking about her garden at the library and skateboarders.)
She takes care of the flower garden at Kansas Avenue, and was riled up earlier this week when someone - the city maybe - put up a Renaissance Fair sign in front of her flowers.
The stakes were pushed into the ground in the dirt she had worked, and were in a spot where it made it difficult for her to move around in the flower garden. What was worse, it blocked the view of her flowers from the street.
The sign was awfully close to her flowers.
She was furious and called the city and let them know about it. The city provides the plants and material, and she does the work. She called whoever she deals with at the city, and maybe someone else asking (putting it mildly) that the sign be removed.
She would have been happy if they would have just moved it over a few feet, so as to not obstruct the view of the flowers. The sign also blocked needed sunlight from the plants.
Nothing happened.
She stewed.
This morning she went over there to do some watering, and whatever else she does to keep the flowers looking good, and when she got back she had this smile of satisfaction on her face.
She told me she had taken the sign down herself because the city had not done so.
Being the meticulous and polite person she is, she took the sign down and carefully placed the poles and wire beside it. She also wrote a note saying what she had done and why, and asked that if it were put back up, to not block out her flowers. She attached the note to the poles so that there would be no doubt as to what had happened.
She wasn't finished.
While I was still soaking in all this information, she called the city office she deals with about the flowers. She left a message telling him that she had taken the sign down because the city had not taken it down nearly a week after being asked.
I asked her why she did that.
She said.
"I didn't want them to think some vandal had taken the sign down."

18 comments:

  1. jj your wife in lot of trouble!!!!!!!!! this city won't allow a priv. cit to do what (they) should have done in the first place. or not?

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  2. The only problem I see the city having is it probably took a crew of 4 to put up the sign.
    But the city is not putting on the little fair thing, are they? I thought it was one of the local private entities.

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  3. Joyce does a real good job. Makes some of our yards look foolish in comparison. But its all good.

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  4. Yep!

    1 out of 11,999 citizens that wants to get something done!
    God forbid what might get done with 2 or 3!

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  5. ummm...tell me again what she took a "stand" for and against what foe?

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  6. Well it started when the CIA planted a mole in the flower garden. Then the city tried to "KIll" the mole with sign posts. When all they had to do was send that weasel Pat McDonald into take care of the Mole. But, Peta steppped in to protect the mole and stop the weasel.
    So JJ's wife just pulled up the sign and went to work.

    End of story!
    and a recap of the
    weeks events.

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  7. Well it looks like she felt infringed upon. Instead of whinning and complaining she took action. That was the stand.

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  8. Joyce is a very pretty woman, i like to see her out there taking care of her flowers, dose she have a schedual?

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  9. A few years ago I went to the funeral of someone who was just past middle age and had suffered terribly and then died from a brain tumor. The last operation was a last resort attempt that left him blind.
    His funeral was at a large Catholic church and it was packed.
    His body was dressed in his favorite blue jeans with a short sleeve blue cotton work shirt and tennis shoes. He was surrounded by objects that he cherished when alive. Above him was a mounted large mouth Bass he had caught. There fishing poles, his shotgun and pictures of all his family.
    The church literaly raised him up to heaven.
    When I left that day I said to myself I am going to have to ask God some day why he took some early and left others?
    It is easy to get caught up in the daily grind and to find reasons to dislike others or their actions.
    But the question we need to ask ourselves is will we be larger in death than we were in life?
    Like the this man was at his funeral!

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  10. You go Joyce! Stick it to em...or should I say unstick em(sign and poles) LOL!

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  11. The sign was put back up, a few feet away from the flowers, as she requested.

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  12. Well, there's your proof it wasn't the city. (Being put back so quickly.)
    "Chestnut will only be closed about a week."
    Who actually believed THAT load about a month ago!!

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  13. JJ, you'll be having a Wallace SWAT team at your door!

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  14. Well if they're totin glocks, im callin mell.

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  15. You better get Mell on speed dial!!! Theyre comin for ya!!!!!

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  16. Wallace doesn't have a SWAT team. It's a regional SWAT team. Mainly from Sumner County.

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  17. Because inquiring minds want to know!

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  18. james, what is the latest on the music fest? I heard can't use the same area due to some kind of date conflict? dang wish i could tipe toulk me 30 min to tipe this. ha. lions will still be avail for burgers, etc. thanks, d.

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